Reading (self-help) is sexy
Books have a way of showing up at just the right moment, offering the wisdom, motivation, and gentle (sometimes not so gentle) reminder we beed to take the next step. Over the years, I’ve read, re-read, taken notes, and learned a lot of lessons from a variety of self-help books that have genuinely shaped my mindset, habits, and approach to life. Here are the books that have changed my perspective!
101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest
This is the kind of book you don’t need to read all at once—it’s meant to be kept close for when you need it. There’s a passage of page in this collection for every situation, offering comfort, guidance, or a new way of think right when you need it most.
A thought-provoking collection of essays that challenge conventional thinking and invite us to look at life from fresh perspectives. Each essay brings something different—a mindset shift, a new habit, or a moment of reflection. It’s a go-to for inspiration whenever I feel stuck.
Atomic Habits by James Clear
This book single handedly transformed and revolutionized the way I think about habits. It’s not about sudden, dramatic shifts, but about mastering small habits that add up over time. James Clear’s strategies on habit-building are practical and backed by science, making it easier to stay consistent.
“Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement “
You are a badass by Jen Sincero
“Your Are a Badass” was my lifeline during the toughest and lowest moments of my college athlete days. I read a chapter each morning to start my day, and it kept me going. She writes a no-nonsense guide to transfomring life by changing the way you think. Embracing your power, letting go of self-doubt, and realizing that you have the ability to create the life you want. It's a confidence boost in book form, perfect for anyone who needs a daily reminder of their own potential.
You are a badass at making money by Jen Sincero
Sincero’s follow-up deep dives into transforming your money mindset, urging us to break free from financial fears and limitations. It’s about creating a life of abundance and learning that we are capable of achieving financial freedom, regardless of where we start.
Love What You Do by Dana Spinola
This is the book that sparked my love for reading. It’s a powerful testament and guide to embracing and following your passions, finding joy in the ups and downs of your career, and building a meaningful life through intentional, purpose-driven choices.
Dream Big by Bob Goff
Bob Goff’s infectious optimism and storytelling remind us to dream without limits. This book inspired me to take risks, pursue audacious goals, and recognize that the journey to achieving dreams is often just as meaningful as the destination.
The Defining Decade by Meg Jay
If you’re navigating your twenties, this book is a must-read. Meg Jay emphasizes the importance of making the most of our twenties—professionally, personally, and socially. She emphasizes that the decisions we make in our twenties lay the foundation for the rest of our lives, making this book a crucial guide for those wanting to take control of their future.
The Shift by TINX
TINX dives into the power of micro-shifts—small changes that can lead to major transformations. It’s about understanding that the little adjustments in our daily mindset and habits can collectively create a profound shift in our lives. TINX guides us to a new way of thinking about life, love, happiness, and friendships. Not to mention she is so relatable and really just gets it, I love her.
8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go by Jay Shetty
Jay Shetty’s book offers a fresh perspective on love, relationships, and letting go. It’s practical and philosophical, providing insights on how to cultivate deep connections while also learning to let go of relationships that no longer serve you.
How To Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowdndes
Communication is key in all aspects of life, and Leil Lowndes delivers a guide to mastering social skills with practical tips. Whether it’s small talk, networking, or making a lasting impression, this book has been invaluable for improving my communication.
A Gentle Reminder by Bianca Sparacino
This beautifully written book is full of poetic reminders that encourage self-love, resilience, and the acceptance of life’s ups and downs. It’s the kind of book that feels like a warm hug on a rainy day.
The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse by Charlie Mackesy
Charlie Mackesy’s illustrated book is a story of friendship, kindness, and hope. Its simple yet profound messages remind us of the importance of compassion, vulnerability, and the beauty of life’s quiet moments.There’s no age limit for this one.
